Mindfulness: the trait of staying aware in a careful deliberate manner.
Sounds simple enough, right?
We’ve all experienced it….trying to stay focused on something we’re doing but totally thinking about something else.
I really had a hard time with it on Monday, in a late afternoon yoga class. I had worked all day from home, I had my daughter with me most of the day (she’s 20 months), and I was really looking forward to the class to unwind. As a student of yoga for many years, you’d think I could just turn it all off with one step on the mat. I wish it were that easy. I still find it so hard to stay present, breath through my poses, and NOT think about my clients, my family, or what still needs to get done at home.
There are certainly times when this mind chatter comes in handy…like when you’re going for a long run and before you know it you’re back home. That’s actually pretty nice. But in yoga mindfulness is part of the practice. Being aware of your breath and actually using it to go farther in a pose or deeper in a stretch — the reward is great. You gain a feeling of accomplishment and a new confidence. This confidence allows you to go even farther in the pose the next time. Soon you are doing poses you never thought possible!
This same confidence can be achieved when it comes to food and eating. I work with women who live very hectic lives! Juggling career, family and kids, active social lives. Eating becomes something done without much thought to hunger cues, appetite, and awareness of how food makes them feel. However, just like with the practice of yoga, mindful eating – practiced consistently – will lend itself to confidence. Food confidence. And that’s what I’m all about.
Today’s tip to the ladies for creating food confidence in life is to be mindful of your thoughts. Banish the guilt, shame and otherwise negative thoughts you create around food. This practice does not serve you or manifest confidence. It’s actually counter-productive. Instead of punishing yourself afterwards, ask yourself BEFORE you eat: Is this food choice in line with my goals? Am I choosing to eat this and am I okay with it? If the answer is yes, well then enjoy it! If the answer is no, then maybe food is not really what you wanted.
Practice this consistently and you will find that you learn a lot about yourself.
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